Sigh..
In January of 2012 I sat in the ER room, waiting for the
doctor to come in to see my son, again, and tell me why his oxygen level was
low enough that he needed an oxygen mask to breathe. I held my baby as he
slept, looking down at his sweet 3 month old face and wondered what could be
the possible cause. The tears wouldn’t stop and the ones I didn’t catch in time
dropped on his hospital gown. The quiet tears turned to very deep sobs. I prayed
to God that it wasn’t something permanent. “Please, God, PLEASE, whatever it
is, don’t let it be something permanent!” I BEGGED. Just sitting there, rocking
him, begging out loud, praying and sobbing, that whatever was causing the
repeated ER visits and now the oxygen mask would be just a blip in his
timeline.
But it wasn’t. First we discovered he had PCP which is a
very serious pneumonia, very rarely seen in babies, more often seen in patients
with compromised immune systems caused by HIV. But why did a little cold
progress into such a serious illness? After a series of blood tests, X-rays,
MRI’s, scopes and biopsies, Bruton’s was the reason. And it is very permanent.
Yesterday we go for a regular follow-up at the immunologist’s
office and I leave there with the doctors concerned that he has a speech delay.
He is 16 months old and does not say even one word. He makes “mama” and “dada”
sounds but they are not directed at us. He doesn’t call us by our names. And he
should be. I have a call in to early intervention for a speech evaluation but I
am praying that it is nothing permanent. Again. I pray that it is just because
his older sister is non-verbal so he is mimicking the only other kid that he’s
really around right now and his words will soon be exploding from his mouth.
There
are so many layers to this traumatic doctor’s visit. Going through yet another
thing with my son; having two kids with special needs; looking forward to the Italy I missed out on with my first kid and landing in Holland again. I can’t even
form coherent phrases to everything in my brain right now.
Please, please, please don’t let this be permanent.
I want to hear “mommy” from one of my babies.
Seba had the same test done and i fought with them because i felt he was denied the therapy because i had good health insurance and a good job so i should pay out of pocket. His stuttering got so bad that it would stop both of the parents and we had to turn away so SEba couldn't see us crying. But i think it took about 5 months and the sturrering slowly stop. We were told to put him in daycare so he could interact with other kids too. Since he was home with Isabella and she being younger, he too was mimicking the younger baby. When the therapist came, she was surprised to see both parents home, yea i took off from work, but i felt that if i was a single mom living in a basement apartment, therapy would have been given. just my 2cents
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